ACAP is a San Antonio-based community for adults ages 18 and older. We welcome adults with interests in ABDL, ageplay, little space, caregiving, diaper lovers, and related communities, along with respectful friends and supporters.

Not at all! You do not have to wear anything special, have a caregiver, identify with a particular label, or join every activity. You can simply enjoy the social side of the community.

You are not the only one. You can take things at your own pace, ask an organizer a question, introduce yourself when comfortable, and start with a casual social event. No one should pressure you to share private information or participate in activities.

Sometimes, yes, but every attendee must be an adult and follow the individual event’s guest, RSVP, and vetting requirements. Do not bring an unapproved guest to a private event.

Read the New Member Guide, review Da Rules, and follow the joining instructions provided through ACAP’s official channels. Some events require vetting or an RSVP before you can attend.

Main Chat is our general, mostly safe-for-work community space. After Bedtime is a separate adults-only side chat for more open, but still moderated, discussion of mature ABDL, ageplay, and kink-related interests. Each has its own posting guidelines.

No. After Bedtime is an ACAP community add-on. Members need to remain in the main ACAP chat, and moderators may remove access to After Bedtime if someone leaves Main Chat.

ACAP values discretion. You generally do not need to publicly share your real name or photo in the group chat. A private event may separately require age verification or information for check-in, with details provided by organizers.

Ask first, especially if the message is personal, suggestive, or related to someone’s role or interests. A group membership is not blanket permission for unsolicited private messages.

Follow the rules of the specific chat. Main Chat is primarily SFW. In After Bedtime, real-life photos and videos must be spoilered and accompanied by #IRL, with permission from everyone identifiable. Artwork should be credited, and prohibited content stays prohibited even when labeled. See Da Rules.

Our activities have included socials, seasonal parties, Pride gatherings, convention meet-and-greets, Littles Lounge experiences, arts and crafts, and storytime collaborations. Each event has its own format, setting, and guidelines.

It depends on the event. Some private gatherings require vetting, prior approval, and an RSVP; other events use different check-in procedures. Always follow the requirements in the specific event announcement.

For privacy and safety, exact addresses for private events may be provided only to approved attendees. Please do not share private locations without organizer permission.

For some events, ordinary casual clothes are perfect. Others may welcome onesies, plushies, pacifiers, diapers, or other little-space attire. Public venues and event-specific dress codes may limit what is appropriate. Check the event details and bring any personal supplies you need.

Photography rules vary. Ask before taking pictures or recording anyone, and ask again before posting or forwarding them. Some events may prohibit or restrict photography altogether; privacy always comes first.

Contact an organizer ahead of time when possible to ask about accessibility, seating, noise, quiet areas, or accommodations. Availability varies by venue, and we would rather help you make an informed decision than promise something the venue cannot provide.

Some events may be free and others may require admission, registration, food contributions, or other costs. Pricing and any RSVP deadlines should be stated in the specific event information.

Yes. ACAP’s chats, events, and little-space programming are exclusively for adults ages 18 and over. Age verification may be required.

Ask before touching someone, involving them in roleplay, making assumptions about a relationship dynamic, or sharing their information. “No” means no, and consent can be withdrawn. Respect safewords and personal limits immediately.

ACAP includes adults with different interests, including some who participate in consensual BDSM or kink-related dynamics. However, membership does not imply interest in sexual activity, and ACAP events should not be treated as play spaces unless the event description explicitly says so. Venue and event rules always apply.

Message an ACAP moderator privately, or speak to an organizer or designated event lead in person. Share what happened and any relevant details you feel safe sharing. In an immediate emergency, contact venue security or emergency services.

Moderators may remove posts, issue warnings, restrict participation, or remove members, depending on the behavior and circumstances. Serious safety or consent violations can result in immediate removal. See our community rules for more information.

Yes, community support matters! If you are interested in setup, cleanup, welcoming attendees, creative activities, or other ways to help, let an organizer know. Opportunities depend on the event and what help is needed.

Absolutely, thoughtful ideas are welcome. Reach out to an organizer with your idea, the audience, venue or timing considerations, and what support you would need. Organizers review proposals based on fit, capacity, and community guidelines.

Start with Our Story and Six Pillars, browse the Resources library, read the New Member Guide, or Meet the Team.

For now, reach out privately to an ACAP admin through the official Telegram community, or speak with an organizer at an event. We’re also creating a dedicated Contact the Organizers page for general inquiries and private messages.