🧸 Alamo City Ageplayers · Community Guidelines
Little Adventures.
Little Adventures.
Big Respect.
Our rules help keep ACAP welcoming, comfortable, and safe for adults to connect, play, learn, and be themselves.
Where are you hanging out?
Good to know: The shared rules apply everywhere ACAP gathers. Each chat or event may have additional rules, and event-specific instructions take priority when they’re stricter.
💬 Telegram Community Chat
SFW-first space
Our Main Chat: Keep It Comfy
Think of the main chat as our friendly community living room. It’s mostly safe for work, welcoming to newcomers, and open to respectful discussions about ABDL, ageplay, interests, and everyday life.
Content & Image Guidelines
- Keep the main chat primarily SFW. No nude photographs, explicit sexual images, graphic bodily-fluid content, or messy close-ups.
- Avoid excessive graphic diaper or messy talk, including soggy diaper photos and similar images.
- Use an appropriate NSFW label or content warning when a permitted topic might catch someone off guard. A label does not make prohibited content okay.
- For more mature conversations, use After Bedtime when the subject is permitted there.
Conversation Etiquette
- Be polite and avoid spam, aggressive language, excessive messaging, or repeated off-topic disruptions.
- Do not pressure members to chat, answer DMs, disclose personal details, or participate in roleplay.
- Keep political discussions minimal and avoid heated debates or personal attacks.
- Use content warnings when discussing sensitive topics such as trauma or violence.
Ageplay & Roleplay Etiquette
- Respect littles, middles, caregivers, diaper lovers, and other roles without shaming anyone’s interests.
- Only involve others in roleplay with clear permission, and make it clear when you’re speaking in or out of character.
- Caregiver/little dynamics never override consent or group rules.
- Use safewords and respect stated limits immediately.
Advertising & Community Sharing
- No unsolicited advertisements, product promotions, referral links, or promotions for other groups.
- Ask an admin before sharing outside events, resources, or community promotions.
- Supportive, constructive discussion is welcome; public feuds, repeated callouts, and harassment are not.
- Friends from furry, pup, little, and adjacent adult communities are welcome when they follow the same expectations.
🌙 Our Adults-Only After-Hours Chat
18+ · Mature discussion
ACAP After Bedtime
Our after-hours community add-on is a place for more open conversations about kink, ageplay, ABDL, diaper-lover topics, and tasteful adult-themed art or memes. It’s for connection and discussion, not a pornography dropbox.
Respect, Safety & Consent
- All shared ACAP rules apply here, including affirmative consent, privacy, and respectful behavior.
- Keep content lawful and safe. Drug-use discussions are not permitted in this chat.
- Don’t pressure other members to share personal experiences, images, or participate in sexual or kink-related conversations.
Tasteful Content & Artist Credit
- Keep posts tasteful. No soggy crotch diaper shots, wetness close-ups, humiliation content, or pornography dumps.
- Sharing artwork? Credit the artist by name and/or link to the original post or source. Credit yourself for your own work when possible.
- Follow moderator guidance if a post isn’t appropriate for the space.
Real-Life Photos & Videos
- Put all real-life photos and videos behind a Telegram spoiler.
- Add the hashtag #IRL to the message accompanying each real-life photo or video, so members know it contains real-life media.
- Only share IRL media you own or have explicit permission to share. All identifiable people pictured must have consented to that sharing.
- The spoiler and hashtag requirement does not override other content restrictions.
Keep It Part of ACAP
- Members of After Bedtime must also remain members of ACAP’s main Telegram chat.
- If you leave the main chat, organizers may remove access to After Bedtime.
- This space is for real community conversation, questions, and learning. If something feels off, tag or message an admin.
🌙 The After Bedtime vibe: You can be candid, curious, and yourself here. Respect others’ limits, keep the posts appropriate to the space, give credit where it’s due, and help make it a comfortable community conversation.
🎉 Parties, Socials & Convention Gatherings
18+ · Event rules apply
In-Person Event Rules
Our events are meant to be places to relax, connect, and have fun with fellow adults. These rules help keep the experience comfortable for attendees, organizers, volunteers, and our host venues.
Entry, Age & Guests
- All ACAP events are for adults 18+. Be prepared to show identification when required.
- Follow RSVP, vetting, guest, check-in, and admission instructions for the individual event.
- Do not bring unapproved guests or share private event locations without organizer permission.
Hands-Off Unless Invited
- Ask before touching, hugging, handling someone’s belongings, joining their play, or assuming a caregiver/little dynamic.
- Accept “no” the first time and respect safewords, personal space, and requests to stop.
- Never pressure another attendee into photos, activities, affection, or private interactions.
Photos, Recording & Privacy
- Ask for clear permission before photographing or recording anyone. Follow any no-photo or restricted-photo rules at the event.
- Don’t post or forward images, names, identities, or locations of other attendees without their consent.
- Respect people who wish to remain anonymous or avoid social media entirely.
Attire, Activities & Venue Boundaries
- Onesies, plushies, pacifiers, diapers, and other little-space attire may be welcome, subject to the event’s dress code and venue rules.
- Keep coverage and conduct appropriate for the event’s setting, especially when any space is publicly accessible.
- Unless an event explicitly states otherwise, treat it as a social gathering rather than a sexual play space.
Hygiene, Cleanup & Shared Spaces
- Keep shared areas sanitary and clean up after yourself, including food, craft supplies, and other items.
- Use designated restroom or changing areas and follow event instructions for appropriate disposal of hygiene supplies.
- Respect other attendees’ sensory needs, the property, staff, and venue rules.
Organizers & Event Safety
- Follow event staff and volunteer instructions, including venue rules and event-specific restrictions.
- Avoid behavior that compromises consent or safety; do not engage in illegal activity.
- Report harassment, boundary violations, or unsafe situations promptly to an ACAP organizer or designated event lead.
🎈 Every event is a little different. The event announcement or check-in team may set stricter rules for attire, photography, activities, accessibility, and venue use. Please review those details before arriving.
🛡️ Keeping Our Community Welcoming
Reporting & Moderation
If someone crosses a boundary, violates these rules, or makes you feel unsafe, reach out privately to an ACAP admin. At events, speak with an organizer or designated staff member.
Moderators may remove posts, issue warnings, restrict participation, or remove members depending on the situation. Serious violations, including underage participation, threats, or serious consent violations, may result in immediate removal.
We aim to address concerns responsibly and fairly. Please avoid public pile-ons or retaliation while an issue is being handled.
💙 Our Little World, Shared Responsibility
Big Hearts. Big Respect.
ACAP works best when we look out for one another. Be kind, ask first, respect boundaries, and help us make every chat and gathering a place where adults feel welcome.
Alamo City Ageplayers · San Antonio, Texas · Adults 18+ only
